Work With Me
Work With Me
Conflict is inevitable, but with the right support and guidance, it can transform into an opportunity to care for the humanity and dignity of everyone involved.
Don’t let conflict derail your life any longer!
Let’s get started…
Conflict is inevitable, but with the right support and guidance, it can transform into an opportunity to care for the humanity and dignity of everyone involved.
Don’t let conflict derail your life any longer!
Let’s get started…
Get started with 3 simple steps…
1. Discovery Call
Let’s get on a Zoom call, talk a bit about your specific situation, and see if working together is a mutual good fit. The Discovery Call may be together with the other party or separate, whichever works best for you.
To schedule a free Discovery Call, click here.
2. Check-in with the other party
All sessions are conducted on the basis of voluntary participation. After your Discovery Call, the next step is to check-in with the other party, inform them of your desire for mediation, and ask if they would like to participate.
3. Schedule a session
If the other party agrees to participate in the process… great! Schedule a Mediation session below.
If the other party declines to participate in the process… no problem! Start the conflict resolution process by scheduling a 1:1 Conflict Coaching session below.
Schedule a session:
Mediation Session
Includes:
➤ 2 x 30 minute individual sessions
➤ 2 hour mediation
$200 – $600
1:1 Coaching Session
Includes:
➤ 1 x 90 minute 1:1 coaching session
$100 – $300
Practical Details:
Fee
➤ As we all have different financial situations, I work with a sliding scale because I like to be flexible, so that your contribution fits your current financial situation as well as your desire to support me.
➤ When paid by a business, it is the highest fee.
➤ I request that clients pay me after our session together, so that what you contribute to me can take into account my contribution to you.
Regarding Money
I want to help create a world where more people get their needs met, and I want people in conflict that want support to be able to access it regardless of how much money they have.
Having said that, I also value a mutual sense of giving and receiving in relationships, both because I feel happiest giving as well as receiving, and because without receiving, I cannot continue to offer this work to the world.
While I stand firmly for my need for mutuality, I’m flexible regarding the ways to meet that need. I see money as a useful strategy to meet my needs because it’s easy for me to transfer it to the exact things that contribute to me. However, if the amount I’m asking for would prevent you from receiving help, I offer the following options:
➤ We can find a different payment schedule that works better for you.
➤ We can brainstorm other ways you can contribute to me. It’s not always easy to find an alternate solution (one that you enjoy giving and that genuinely contributes to me), but I’m willing to try.
If you have any questions or concerns about money, please reach out to me through the contact page.
Going Over Time
Sometimes sessions run longer than 3 hours (mediation) or 90 minutes (conflict coaching). Sometimes a meaningful moment arises near the end of our scheduled time together and there is energy to continue. If this occurs, you have two options to choose from:
1. Stop the session at the original agreed upon time.
2. Continue the session and for you to pay me for the additional time ($100-$200 per hour).
Session Location
Mediation and coaching sessions are done online via the video conferencing platform Zoom.
In select cases, sessions are held in-person in Asheville, North Carolina or the greater North Carolina area. If you might want to work with me in person, please let me know and we’ll figure what works best for all parties involved.
Cancelation & Late Arrival Policy
Canceling a session:
I appreciate knowing as early as possible if there is a change to a session you’ve scheduled as time changes have an important impact on the planning of my day.
If you reschedule or cancel a session under 24-hours advance notice, the agreement is:
➤ Mediation Sessions: You agree to pay me for the first hour ($100-$200) for the impact your cancelation has on me (saying no to other things, etc).
➤ 1:1 Conflict Coaching Sessions: You agree to pay me for the session in full ($100-$300).
Late arrivals:
If you are going to be late to a session, please let me know as soon as possible as well as the approximate time you expect to arrive. If you do not show up at our agreed upon start time and do not let me know you will be arriving late, I will wait up to 20 minutes before closing the session and considering it canceled (see terms above).